The groom arrived by abt 10am whereby he was to come fetch the bride bac home for the tea ceremony. According to Chinese customs, the bride’s parents n the groom was not supposed to meet each other when the groom enters the house initially. So that they would not ‘chong dao’ each other and hav future disputes or something like dat. Saya is not a veri traditional or superstitious person..haha..n so is my family.